The approach worked for Drs. Antonelli, Salzwedel, Robert and Naomi. Their identifying details were changed so this story could be included in the AMA module without violating patient confidentiality.
Lay out the goal
Dr. Antonelli started by telling Robert and Naomi, “I believe our goal for our visit today is to find out how to provide you with more support. I want to make sure I understand the situation and what your needs are so we can figure out how to best support you.”
Then he listened. His body language showed he was paying attention. As Robert discussed his aggravation over how long he had to wait in the emergency department when he was sick, Dr. Antonelli nodded and acknowledged that he was listening by simply saying, “Mmm-hmm.” Naomi then took approximately five minutes to talk about her husband’s care and her frustrations. She said there were evenings when she needed to talk to a doctor and didn’t get the response she wanted. Naomi described the stress and pressure it put on her. “The health care system just doesn’t support us,” she said. “We just have to fend for ourselves when it’s not business hours.”
At a lull, Dr. Antonelli reflected back what he was hearing and said, “it sounds like in the evenings and on weekends you haven’t gotten the care that you’ve needed. That’s put you in the really uncomfortable position of having to be his wife and medical provider at the same time. Am I understanding that right?”
Naomi nodded and talked a little more about her dissatisfaction, but with less urgency and emotion. Then Dr. Antonelli spoke.
“Let me talk to you about access to care,” the internist said. “I understand that we let people down all the time; they can’t get an answer to a phone call when they want. May I tell you about some of the things I’ve done to help my patients get better access to care?”
When Naomi and Robert nodded, Dr. Antonelli explained the practice’s on-call system and the electronic patient portal. He told them that he could be the first point of contact when there were concerns. He ended by telling them, “I hear you loud and clear. You want to be able to trust that you will be able to reach a doctor when you need one.” Robert and Naomi said they didn’t know they could call a primary care doctor about a cardiac issue. Naomi said that would help.
Dr. Antonelli also explained it is hospital policy to not use email for any patient communication and that the patient portal was established for communication. He also told them, “I’d like to be able to give you my cellphone number, but I want to make my practice sustainable and I want to be fair to my family. I just can’t have patients call my cellphone directly.”
At the end of the conversation, the patient and Naomi said they understood. “I feel better about what you're going to be able to do to help us in the evenings and on weekends,” Naomi said. Dr. Antonelli said he felt less stress following the positive experience.
Other tangible and intangible benefits to listening with empathy include:
- Greater therapeutic efficacy
- More trust, which leads to improved patient adherence to treatment
- More effective communication between patient and clinician, resulting in patients who feel less anxiety and more able to cope emotionally
- Enhanced patient disclosure of problems and concerns
The listening with empathy STEPS Forward module can teach you more about how to become an empathetic listener, including managing the first few “golden moments” in a clinical encounter and when to respond verbally. It also includes tools and resources to support your efforts.
This module may be completed for continuing medical education credit. There are seven new modules now available from the AMA’s STEPS Forward collection, bringing the total number of practice improvement strategies to 43; several thanks to a grant from, and collaboration with, the Transforming Clinical Practices Initiative.